How bad does it hurt your first time "in bed"?

omgosh...9 inches...shittttt i thought i was gonna die with 6 1/2 ...damnnnn girllll. ya my personal experience hurt like a bitchhhhh know joke. I remember telling him id rather break my wrist over a thousand times then go through losing my virginity for the first time again. im a person who generally handles pain very well but ill tell you what..loosing my virginity defo got to me >.<